Thomas Kilroy

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After another hiatus.. an update

Where did the last three years just go? It is scary to think bout the torrential waters that flowed under that bridge.. 2 redundancies, 4 startups, 3 social networks deleted and one bout of COVID,

On the upside, I’ve run hundreds thousands of miles, and still not had one drink in a decade. Go me!

But seriously, what a ride that has been. And I am sure it has been the same for you too. (But maybe not ‘U2’ who seem to have forgotten what the inside of a studio looks like. Come on guys!)

So what’s next for me in terms of creative, personal and professional next steps? Well, lets see…

After 32 years in Hospitality, I have recently made a big career reset and gone into the Civil Service. And I’m absolutely loving it! (More on that later.)

And as you are reading this article, then it looks like I have finally revisited this personal website of mine to give it some love. Kitchen Sync is still important to me, but needs a little re-think just now.

I’d love to reboot my Podcast, but one step at a time. Don’t run before you can walk, as they say.

But I have been focused on my personal wellbeing - and right now I feel I am in the best shape in my life. So my intention is to keep running, do more strength training and generally worry less about those big hairy goals I was always chasing to my detriment.

My focus now is on the process rather than the outcome… if I can get that right, then those goals - the ones that matter anyway! - will come.

My wife Arati continues to be my rock and I am trying to live up to her amazing love for me everyday.

My parents are in great health and great spirits as they enjoy their overdue and well-deserved retirement together. Our wider fimaily in Nepal continue to shower is with love and best wishes and we miss them madly every day - Nepal was and always will be our spiritual home and we can’t wait to go back when the right moment comes.

L-R: Thomas, Jade and Arati Kilroy

And our daughter Jade has now ensconced herself away in a dorm room in Manchester Met University as of last month. . I remember walking around Bicester Village on a cold wintry Wednesday evening in 2016 where she was handing in her CV to land that all-important first job. She got one within days and just recently finished up at Gucci after four amazing years to study for a degree in Fashion Business. Naturally we are so, so proud of the talented, resilient and super glamorous young woman she has turned out to be.

As for this blog.. I do intend to give it some love over the next few weeks. Even if nobody reads it. (OK, you are reading it - and for that I am truly grateful!)

Also check out my new page called LinkedOut - it is a newsletter of links that I find interesting and worth sharing. So rather than sharing them on a social channel where the get lost in the firehose, I am sharing them to my own page where I can find them and refer back to them when I need them.

As for what gets shared, heres my take on it: when I was a chef, I cooked food I liked to eat - and it turned out that most custmers came to my restarants because they liked that food too! So I’m applying the same logic to the links I share - If I like them, then theress a good chance you’ll like them too.

Let me know what you think. The first few were really to set up the format and workflow.. so bear with!

And with that, I am going to sign off and get this published before I change my mind. Drop in a comment if you have any thoughts - even to tell me not to bother. I will be the first to agree with you. But like it says on th ecover page of this website: ‘the only constant is change’.. so here’s to changing it up a little in terms of sharing my most recent personal perspective and worldview.

Thanks for dropping by - stay safe and keep strong.

FOOTNOTE: **that figure of 980 was made up in the moment. I will check it out later and correct it as soon as I can.